Is it cheating if you picture someone else during sex? I’d really like to know what other people think. My experience with long-term sexual relationships is short: my husband. If a woman’s orgasm is mental, isn’t it just a means to an end? I had to investigate the orgasm problem my other women friends also often commented to me about. (I attached an interesting article about entitled “Facts about the female Orgasm” from Everyday Health;)
When I first married, I was pregnant. So, for about three years of my marriage, my husband and I rarely connected, especially in the bedroom. When we did, in order to finish for him, I had to imagine my favorite cock in my head. I would feel guilty afterwards, like I’d kinda cheated.
Over time I became angry at the fact that I couldn’t orgasm for my husband without bringing another man into our bed. I had the grand idea of blogging naughty thoughts and then taking them into bedroom with my husband. We began to explore different positions, and I enjoyed pleasing him more, to the point that now he knows how to really get me in the end so that I actually cum from him!
I guess I still feel that whatever gets you off is better than not being able to release your pent-up frustrations;) I don’t know. You tell me!